Some nights you want something new but can't say exactly what. This list covers the whole menu: 20 hot challenges from seven categories of the NaughtyApp dare database - touch, oral, sex, anal, feet, roleplay and the finish - each one written out in full, with who does what and for how long.
Pick one category for tonight, or play one from each and find out which one you both want more of.
Three rules before you start
- Both say yes. Read the challenge out loud first. If either of you hesitates, skip it - there are 19 more.
- A safe word. One word that stops everything instantly, no questions, no sulking.
- Lube within reach. Anything with repeated friction, fingers or anal play needs it.
Touch · the warm-up
Level 2. Hands only, eyes closed - the fastest way to go from zero to wanting it.
- Find me with your eyes closed. She asks him to close his eyes, sits on the bed away from him and spreads her legs, then guides him with her voice until he reaches her and feels how wet she is with his hands. If he opens his eyes, she takes his hands away.
- Now find him. He asks her to close her eyes, sits on the bed away from her, then guides her with his voice until she reaches him and feels how hard he is with her hands. If she opens her eyes, he takes her hands away.
- Two minutes, no touching. One of you has two minutes to turn the other on - without touching them at all.
Oral
From teasing through fabric to the edge of the bed.
- Twerk (level 2). She stands up and spreads her backside. He puts his face between her buttocks, and she twerks with his face there for 30 seconds.
- Ten squats (level 2). He lies on his back. She does 10 squats over his face while he tries to lick her through her panties.
- Over the edge (level 4). She lies on her stomach on the bed with her face right at the edge. He comes to the edge, puts his penis in her mouth, and she sucks him in that position for 140 seconds while he leans forward to massage and feel her backside.
Sex
Three very different ways in: a tease, a game and a technique.
- Use your breasts (level 2). She has 60 seconds to use her breasts creatively to turn him on.
- Guess the video (level 4). Each of you picks two porn videos - one you really enjoyed and one you didn't - and shows them to the other. Then you each guess which one the other liked. Guess right, and you reproduce that video's content together. Guess wrong, and you move on.
- The cup (level 5). He lies down beside her at hip height, puts a few drops of lube or saliva on all five fingers and lays his palm flat on her mound. He bends his fingers down to press along the whole width and length of her vulva, cupping it in his hand, then slides his fingers slowly up and down, getting faster as she gets more aroused - until she comes.
Anal
Slow, well lubricated and always with a clear yes. Nothing goes in at level 2.
- Kisses and a fingertip (level 2). One of you lies on their stomach. The other kisses their buttocks and caresses their anus with a finger for two minutes - without slipping it in.
- Come here (level 3). One of you lies on their back. The other slides a middle finger into their anus, bends it slightly up toward the belly button and makes "come here" movements, caressing their nipples with the other hand for two minutes. The one lying down can't touch themselves unless they're allowed to.
- Both hands (level 3). She gets on all fours and puts her face down on the bed so her backside is higher in the air. She reaches one arm behind her back to touch her anus and the other under her body to touch her clitoris, for 150 seconds - while he slides two fingers into her vagina and makes circles inside.
Feet
Ice, toes and the view from behind.
- Cold toes (level 3). He lies on his back. She puts an ice cube in her mouth and melts it on his feet, licking and sucking his toes. Then he uses his cold toes to rub her clitoris until she almost comes - or stops earlier, his call.
- Toes in his mouth (level 4). She lies on her back with her ankles on his shoulders. He puts her toes in his mouth while he penetrates her, and can't take them out for two minutes. She records it and sends him the video.
- The view (level 5). She kneels on the bed facing the wall, hands on the wall. He sits behind her, and she masturbates him with her feet in that position, so he can see her backside and the soles of her feet, until he comes.
Roleplay
A character makes it easier to do what you would never ask for as yourselves.
- The late-night barista (level 2). She's the barista, he's the only customer at the counter. She makes his cappuccino and draws a heart in the foam while biting her lip - then leans over the counter and offers him a "taste test" before serving it.
- The contest winner (level 3). She's the red-carpet celebrity, he's the fan who won the contest. She takes him into the private restroom, drops her gown to reveal tiny lingerie, sits in his lap and strokes his penis with her hands for three minutes - while he can only watch.
- The birthday gift (level 5). He's the birthday boy; she's the surprise, gift-wrapped on the bed. He unties the bow with his teeth, undresses her piece by piece and penetrates her at a building rhythm, in any position she asks for, until they climax together.
The finish
Level 5 is where it ends - and in this category, where it lands.
- On her backside. She gets on all fours with her backside raised. He penetrates her, and when he's about to come he pulls out and comes all over her backside - while she spreads her buttocks for him.
- Lubricate her. She lies back and spreads herself open. He masturbates until he comes on her vagina - and afterwards she can rub his cum into her clitoris.
Want a whole night of one category?
If one of these caught you more than the rest, there's a full article for it: the slow-burn edging guide, the BDSM challenges, level by level, and spicy truth or dare for couples.
FAQ
What are hot challenges to do with your partner?
Short dares - usually a minute or two, sometimes until someone comes - that tell you exactly what to do together. They take the guesswork out of trying something new, and nobody has to be the one who suggested it.
How do we choose which challenge to do?
Pick the category you're both curious about and start with its lowest level. Or let chance decide - that's exactly what NaughtyApp does.
Are these challenges good for beginners?
The level 2 ones are, and every category above starts at or near that level. Levels 4 and 5 assume you already know what you both like.
What if one of us doesn't want to do a challenge?
Skip it. A challenge only works when both of you want it - saying no is part of the game, not the end of it.
Where do these challenges come from?
All 20 come from the NaughtyApp dare database: 4,500+ dares across more than a dozen categories and five intensity levels, with a built-in timer. Free on iOS and Android.
Let the app pick tonight's challenge
Deciding what to do is half the work - and it's the part that kills the mood. NaughtyApp takes it off your hands.
- Every category in one game. Touch, oral, sex, anal, feet, roleplay, edging, submission and more - you choose which ones are switched on.
- Five levels, in order. It starts soft and only climbs as fast as you both want.
- 4,500+ dares with a built-in timer, plus a remote mode for nights apart.
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