Routine is the silent killer of desire. If sex with your partner has started to feel predictable, these 30 erotic challenges for couples are built to shatter the autopilot and bring back the heat — one bold dare at a time.
We pulled the 30 most intense dares from three of the hottest categories in the NaughtyApp: anal, submission and edging. They all sit at levels 4 and 5 — the advanced tiers — so they are meant for couples who already trust each other and want to push further. Level 4 dares focus on giving pleasure; level 5 dares are designed to finish with an explosive orgasm. Always agree on a safe word, use plenty of lube, and only do what excites you both.
Anal
Prostate play, deep penetration and slow, teasing entry — anal is the ultimate trust game.
1. Anal · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Woman, start masturbating Man very slowly for about 10 seconds, then stop and insert your lubricated index finger into his anus, curling it upward in a "come here" motion toward his navel for about 10 seconds. Then stop and masturbate him again for 10 seconds. Keep alternating until the timer runs out.
2. Anal · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Man, lie on your back. Woman, climb on top of him, rest your breasts on his thighs with your backside facing his face, then start masturbating him and massaging his prostate until the timer runs out. Man, enjoy the view of her backside — and feel free to masturbate her in the meantime.
3. Anal · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, lie on your back with your legs open. Man, slide a finger into her anus and start massaging, then push your tongue as deep as possible into her vagina and lick her in circular motions while you use your other hand to massage her clitoris, until the timer runs out.
4. Anal · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Man, lie on your back. Woman, with your back to him, slide his penis into your anus; once inside, stay still. Each time Man gives you a lash, move your hips back and forth once — one move per lash, and he can give as many as he wants — until the timer runs out.
5. Anal · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, get on all fours and spread your cheeks. Man, lubricate your penis with saliva or lube and rub it against her anus — don't penetrate yet, lubricate the entrance very well. Then Woman decides when and how you penetrate her; once she gives the green light, do your very best until the timer runs out.
6. Anal · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, lie on your back and open your legs. Man, slide one finger into her vagina and another into her anus, start penetrating very slowly while you lick her clitoris, and increase the pace of both the penetration and the licking as her pleasure builds, until she comes.
7. Anal · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, handcuff her to the bed (just one hand — leave the other free so she can touch herself), then slowly slide your penis into her vagina while you push as many fingers as you can into her anus, until she comes.
8. Anal · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, get on all fours and spread your cheeks. Man, grab a camera and take a photo of her in this position. Then sodomize her until she comes, and afterward take another photo of her anus to capture what you did to her.
9. Anal · Level 5 — until he comes
Man, lie on your back. Woman, climb onto his lap with your back to him and slide his penis into your vagina, start riding very slowly, then lean forward a little and slip a finger into his anus to massage his prostate while you ride, until he comes.
10. Anal · Level 5 — until he comes
Woman, start masturbating Man very slowly, then place your fingertip on his prostate and press gently, as if ringing a doorbell. Try different pressures and hold for shorter or longer intervals to find what works, until he comes.
Submission
Giving up (or taking) control turns the bedroom into a power play. Bind, command, obey.
11. Submission · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Woman, have Man insert the anal plug into you using only his mouth, then order him to sit down and start riding him. At the halfway point, take the plug out and put it in his mouth, then keep riding until the time is up — he must not let the plug fall from his mouth, or you stop riding and he loses his next turn.
12. Submission · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Man, sit on a chair with your hands behind it. Woman, tie his hands, then climb on top of him and slide his penis into your vagina; now make only tiny movements or contractions with your vagina, and pinch his nipples too, until the timer runs out.
13. Submission · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, slide the vibrator into her vagina and hold it still; while you hold it, Woman moves back and forth. You can spank her backside. Do this until the time is up, then pull the vibrator out and hand it to her — she must lick and suck it clean.
14. Submission · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, get on all fours and start sucking the dildo as if it were another person. Man, see how dirty and naughty she is — punish her by pounding her vagina hard, tell her how dirty she is, spank her cheeks, and make her feel just how naughty she is.
15. Submission · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, slide your penis as deep as possible into her vagina and set the pace by grabbing and pulling her hair. Woman, you must obey his orders and thank him for the pleasure you're feeling.
16. Submission · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, slide your penis as deep as possible into her vagina and stop. Woman, you may rub your clitoris but you can't move unless Man gives you a slap as the signal — 2 slaps: move, 1 slap: stop. Keep going until Woman comes. Man, you can also penetrate her with a vibrator to heighten the pleasure.
17. Submission · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, sit down with your hands behind your back. Man sits behind you, wraps you with his legs, handcuffs you, and starts masturbating you slowly while pinching your nipples with the other hand, until you're almost at orgasm — then he must stop. Keep doing this until Woman begs to come; it's up to Man whether to let her finish or not.
18. Submission · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, slide your penis as deep as possible into her vagina and stop. Woman, you may rub your clitoris but you can't move unless Man signals with a lash — 2 lashes: move, 1 lash: stop. Keep going until Woman comes.
19. Submission · Level 5 — until he comes
Woman, have Man insert the anal plug into you using only his mouth, then order him to sit down and start riding him. When he's about to come, stop, take the plug out and put it in his mouth, then ride him until he comes — he must not let the plug fall, or you stop and he doesn't get to finish.
20. Submission · Level 5 — until he comes
Woman, stand up. Man, kneel in front of her and bring your nose close to her vagina, then you may masturbate to orgasm — but careful: don't pull your nose away or you have to stop. You must keep your nose against her vagina if you want to come. Woman, film it so you can both watch later.
Edging
Bring each other to the very brink, again and again. The longer the build-up, the bigger the release.
21. Edging · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Man, lie on your back. Woman, sit on his face — he has to lick your vagina while you stroke him. Start with a nice handjob, alternating slow and fast, pull back his glans and lick his frenulum, massage his sack, grind your vagina on his face — but don't let him come. When he's almost there, he should warn you so you can stop and move on to the next challenge.
22. Edging · Level 4 — she pleasures him
Woman, this challenge has 3 parts: 1) pinch, caress and rub his nipples and kiss him gently on the neck, ear and mouth until he's as aroused as possible; 2) then masturbate him very slowly until he's almost there; 3) then let him penetrate your vagina, controlling the pace by telling him what to do — start slow, then speed up. Do not let him come!
23. Edging · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Man, let Woman pick out a nude of herself, a softcore video and a hardcore one. Masturbate her very slowly while she looks at the nude; when she's about to come, move on — masturbate her a bit faster while she watches the softcore, stopping when she's close. Then the final step: masturbate her as fast as you can, and when she's about to come, stop and move on to the next challenge.
24. Edging · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, get on all fours with your backside up. Man, place the vibrator in her vagina and hold it still while she moves back and forth; she can also rub her own clitoris. Careful: she must stop when she's about to come — take a break of about a minute and start again. Do this three times, then move on to the next challenge.
25. Edging · Level 4 — he pleasures her
Woman, lie on your back with your knees bent over your chest. Man, place the vibrator in her vagina while you lick her clitoris very slowly in circular motions; when she's about to come, pull the vibrator out and stop licking, take a 30-second break, then start again — until she can't hold back. Then move on to the next challenge.
26. Edging · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, lie on your back and relax. Man, lubricate her vagina with saliva or lube, then caress her clitoris, run your hand all over her vagina and slide your fingers inside. Each time she's about to come, you have to stop, pause about 20 seconds and start again — keep going until she can't hold back, then either deny her orgasm, or "ruin" it by letting her come without touching her as she does.
27. Edging · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, lie on your back and relax — it's time to test your limits. Man, lubricate her vagina, then caress her clitoris with the vibrator, glide it all over her vagina and penetrate her; each time she's about to come, you have to stop, pause about 20 seconds and start again, until she can't hold back and finally comes.
28. Edging · Level 5 — until she comes
Woman, lie on your back. Man, penetrate her vagina with the vibrator, then rub her clitoris gently and as fast as you can; when she's about to come, stop, pause 20 seconds and start again, slowing the pace. Keep doing this, and every time she's close, pause and slow down — try to make her come with just a touch or the tiniest movements.
29. Edging · Level 5 — until he comes
Man, lie on your back and relax. Woman, lubricate his penis with saliva or lube, then caress it, run your hand all over his penis and rub his frenulum; each time he's about to come, you have to stop, pause about 20 seconds and start again, until he can't hold back. Then either deny his orgasm, or let him come without touching him as he does.
30. Edging · Level 5 — until he comes
Man, lie on your back. Woman, lubricate his penis, then masturbate him using only two fingers — your thumb and index finger. When he's about to come, take a break of about 30 seconds and start again; keep doing this until he can't hold back and comes.
How to get the most out of these challenges
Start with a level 4 dare to warm up, then graduate to level 5 when you are both ready to finish. Communication is everything — talk before, during and after. Ready for 3,000+ more? The NaughtyApp has you covered.
